Waging with Aging

I always thought I would age gracefully. Nope. One glimpse at the first few wrinkles in the mirror and I knew I was going fighting, kicking and screaming all the way. It’s not exactly aging gracefully when you find yourself going through the mile-long counter of miracle wrinkle creams at the department store and you come home with one of each?

Sadly, it’s not been the most successful battle. Several vats of creams later, there are places on this face that don’t care that it was very expensive miracle cream. And it’s weird because some body parts seem to age faster than others. It’s like there are parts that age in dog years for some reason. I didn’t see that one coming. Age? It fights dirty.

The good news is that the age battle isn’t really the important battle. When I finish this life, I want to hear the Lord say, “Well done, good and faithful servant.” Not, “Wow, you look pretty good for an old gal.” I want to spend my time not just fighting, but fighting the “good” fight. I want to fight for what is good and precious. Like life.

I truly believe our God is pleased with our battle on behalf of the innocent. There is sadness that’s almost unspeakable each time a precious baby is deprived the privilege of aging. The fight on behalf of those precious ones is not an easy fight. But it’s a worthy one.

At the end of everything Paul worked for here on earth, he was able to say in 2 Timothy 4:7, “I have fought the good fight, I have finished the race, I have kept the faith.” We get glimpses into some of his battles throughout the New Testament and from history—and Paul’s battles were anything but easy. But were they worthy? Scripture is brimming with evidence that they were.

Isn’t it sweet, by the way, to think of Paul reaping the rewards for his every worthy battle even now? Paul is in the presence of Christ. It doesn’t get better than that! He is experiencing joy we can’t even begin to imagine. The battles were relatively oh so short compared to the rewards he’ll experience eternally. I imagine every worthy battle he ever fought is being followed by sweetness that surprises even him.

I want to put even more effort into fighting every worthy battle than I do fighting the aging body battle. I would rather be known as one who fought the good fight—pruny or not—and I truly want to fight that good fight all my years. Not just the doggy ones.

Rhonda Rhea is a radio personality and a conference speaker for events all over the country. She is the wife of First Baptist Church of Troy, Missouri’s pastor, Richie Rhea, and mother of five, two in college and three teenagers. She has authored several fun and fruitful books, including Amusing Grace, Who Put the Cat in the Fridge, I’m Dreaming of Some White Chocolate, and more. Watch for High Heels in High Places—Walking Worthy in Way Cute Shoes coming in September 2007. Find out more at www.RhondaRhea.net. For speaking information, try www.FindRhonda.com.