Banish the Druids
By Richard Nadler
The June 26 U.S. Supreme Court decision that posited consensual
sodomy as a constitutionally protected right was not an isolated event.
It was predicated on a decades-long assault by liberal jurists on anti-adultery
statutes and torts -- an assault that decriminalized and destigmatized
Bible-based laws restricting heterosexual activity.
Missouri
provides a recent example. “Alienation of affection” is a common law tort that
can be brought against the seducer of a married individual, male or female, by
the wronged spouse on the basis of sexual and/or material loss. On June 17,
2003, in Helsel v. Noellsch,
Missouri became the 39th state to abolish it.
No
one blinked. Adultery had already been decriminalized in Missouri by a 1979 act
of the legislature. In 1994, the state Supreme Court uprooted the tort of “criminal
conversation,” a civil action based on proven adultery.
Indeed,
the only uncommon feature of this breach with common law was the manner of its
making. Thirty-three other states had repealed “alienation of affection” by
statute. In Missouri, it fell to a 5-to-2 majority of the State Supreme Court.
Speaking
for the majority, Judge Richard Teitelman posited two
reasons for insulating marriage-breakers from civil actions: first, that such
actions were premised on barbaric assumptions insulting to women; and second,
that consistency demanded it.
According
to Judge Teitelman, alienation of affection is “inextricably
bound” to antiquated property concepts. In order to ensure pure bloodlines and
discourage adultery,” he wrote, “the early Germanic tribes provided that men
were entitled to payment from the wife’s lover so that the husband could
purchase a new spouse… As successors to the Germanic tradition, the
Anglo-Saxons also provided a cause of action for men to recover for another’s
interference with the marital relationship…
“The
original justification for the tort of alienation of affection lies in the
antiquated concept that husbands had a proprietary interest in the person and
services of wives.”
But
the American legislatures that established this cause of action, starting with
New York in 1864, were peopled not by Druids, but by Christians. And the
concept they adopted was Mosaic, not Germanic. Jewish law assumes marital
obligations defined by, but not limited to, property and service. And this law
posits property and service requirements on both male and female. The husband
must provide his wife food, clothing, and marital relations. A Ketuba, or marriage contract, can specify property rights
in addition to these.
Nor
was the husband his wife’s slaveholder under English Christian law. Under the
Married Women’s Property Acts, a wronged wife could bring actions against a
seductress who impaired her rights under the marriage contract.
The
case facts in Helsel v. Noellsch
blur Judge Teitelman’s historic rationale for its
overturn. Katherine Helsel, a wife and mother,
brought suit against Sivi Noellsch,
her husband’s physical therapist, for “alienation of affections.” Noellsch’s liaison with David, Katherine’s husband,
included dating, gifts, sex, and constant surreptitious communications. The
romance bloomed while Mrs. Helsel was bearing her
husband’s second child. David announced his intention to divorce her within
days of that child’s birth.
He
subsequently married Sivi.
A
jury, hearing the evidence, awarded Katherine Helsel
actual damages of $50,000 and punitive damages of $25,000.
By
overturning this verdict, and its cause, Judge Teitelman
“protected” a married woman from chattel status by denying her a quantifiable
claim against an assault on her marriage.
Not
all states have rushed to overturn tradition. The supreme court of Mississippi
upheld the same tort. Its majority wrote, “[A spouse] is entitled to society,
companionship, love, affection, aid, services, support, sexual relations and
the comfort of her husband as special rights and duties growing out of the
marriage covenant. To these may be added the right to live together in the same
house, to eat at the same table, and to participate together in the activities,
duties and responsibilities necessary to make a home… To abolish the tort of
alienation of affections would, in essence, send the message that we are
devaluing the marriage relationship.”
Katherine
Helsel’s attorney, Craig Ritchie, argued that “alienation
of affections” provides a monetary disincentive to adulterous behavior, while
its removal eliminates the last cause of action against a third party who “wrongfully
interferes in a marital relationship.”
Judge
Duane Benton penned the dissent in the June 17 Missouri decision. The common
law, he observed, continues to acknowledge interference with marital consortium
as a cause of action by a spouse suffering the loss. If work-based negligence
denied a wife the affections of her husband, a tort could proceed. “In
alienation of affection,” Benton wrote, “a defendant’s intentional conduct
causes the loss… It is inconsistent that the law compensates for negligent
conduct causing a loss of consortium, but (after this opinion) does not
compensate for intentional conduct causing the same loss.”
In
other words, a marriage-breaker now enjoys special immunity from civil
prosecution when a marriage contract is impaired. Consensual sex trumps traditional
boundaries.
This
was the consistency for which Judge Teitelman
pleaded. “If a spouse cannot recover because of an adulterous affair under a
criminal conversation theory, “ he wrote, “a spouse
should likewise be barred from recovery by simply attaching the moniker of ‘alienation
of affection’ to the petition.”
And
there is little doubt that consistent hostility to Judaic and Christian
concepts of marriage excludes the criminalization of adulterous behavior,
non-marital sex, and/or consensual sodomy.
“Over
time,” wrote Dennis Owens, attorney for defendant Sivi
Noellsch, “the courts and society in general have
increasingly recognized that individual consent is central to the contemporary
marital relationship -- not only to its creation, but to its maintenance as
well. Increasingly, there is both implicit and explicit recognition in the law
that marital partners are individuals, each with a separate intellectual and
emotional makeup. To allow recovery against a third party for loss of a spouse’s
affections now runs counter to the central principles in our modern legal system that recognize individual autonomy.”
This
primacy of “individual autonomy” over marriage banishes not just the Druids,
whose effect on American law was minimal, but the Jews and Christians, who
regard adultery as a punishable sin, and marriage as a contract before God
involving property and services.
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Richard Nadler is editor of
KC Jones Monthly, a Midwestern journal of opinion.